Dating suddenly dumped
It’s true that you have to deal with the sadness and not deny it or push it aside.
However, that doesn’t mean you can or should let yourself wallow in it.
I realized that if my mind was not occupied (with things that didn’t include my ex!
I told him I was open to that but that he’d have to take that step. To be honest, he is such an amazing guy (opposite of the loser musicians and wannabe actor types that I usually end up with) that I often wondered why he was dating me in the first place. Why would he bother texting afterward or bother suggesting that we have another conversation about things in a week? Why wouldn’t he just walk away after doing the dumping? It’s a horrible, horrible feeling, right up there with, well, being dumped.Oh my gd, I was in the same situation a few years ago with a guy I totally liked and cliked with and well, wanted to date.We dated for a short time, than he went back to his ex, than we saw each other again and eventually he ended the sexual aspect to our “relationship” but called me all of the time and wanted to hang out and keep in touch.Given below are a few things I tried to keep myself busy with, after my recent break up. Clean out the garage, the attic or the basemen etc and have a garage sale (you’ll free up space and make a bit of cash while you’re at it!